I need X to do Y — Syndrome

Most of us have or have had this syndrome "I need X to do Y".

Get over with it this syndrome:

Eventually we have to do it by ourselves, doesn't matter if we do X or not. It is more fun and engaging when we do Y by ourself; it is also a litmus test, if we really want to do Y.

Discipline and Passion matters. I wish, I had more of these in me.